Founder of Action Chapel International, Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams, challenges couples to choose financial readiness over lavish ceremonies, sparking a national conversation on wedding culture and debt.
In a bold sermon that quickly spread across social media, Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams directly criticized the pressure to host extravagant weddings.
Consequently, he urged couples to prioritize financial health from the very start of their marriage.
A Direct Challenge to Wedding Debt
The Archbishop set a clear benchmark for financial readiness.
“If the man cannot prove that at least he has GH¢100,000 in his bank account, he shouldn’t have a wedding,” he stated.
 Furthermore, he warned couples against beginning their union under the burden of debt, painting a vivid picture of post-wedding stress:
“You go on honeymoon, and the phone starts ringing. Someone who supplied the chairs is calling… Before you realise it, your ability to function is gone.”
Redefining the Core of Marriage
Importantly, he drew a sharp distinction between marriage and wedding celebrations.
“Marriage is not a wedding,” he told his congregation.
“Love doesn’t buy provisions, love doesn’t pay the bills.”
The Archbishop argued that the current emphasis on lavish receptions distorts the true meaning of commitment, especially for young couples.
A Radical Proposal for Simplicity
While affirming his support for marriage, Archbishop Duncan-Williams proposed a radical shift toward simplicity. Specifically, he envisions group ceremonies focused on the core commitment.
“We need to have about five or ten couples on a Sunday morning on the altar here… No best man, no maid of honour… We just pronounce the blessing of God. Go home. Make love. Make babies. Live your life.”
Additionally, he questioned the value of expensive receptions, noting that couples often overspend to entertain guests who may not offer genuine support.
“Why do you have to bring people to come and eat and drink your food for free, and then after they insult you?” he asked.
Sparking Widespread Debate
As a result, the Archbishop’s comments have ignited vigorous debate online. On one hand, many supporters applaud his focus on financial responsibility, agreeing that debt should not shadow a new marriage.
On the other hand, critics find his financial threshold too rigid and argue that his view overlooks cultural traditions and social expectations.
A Call for Financial Reflection
Ultimately, this conversation raises essential questions about modern matrimony: Can couples redefine celebration on their own terms? How can society balance cultural practices with financial wisdom? In conclusion, Archbishop Duncan-Williams’s challenge invites every couple to plan not just for a wedding day, but for a secure and prosperous life together.
What do you think? Is a lavish wedding a necessary celebration or a financial risk for new couples? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
